Many people are not aware of common abusive behaviours. If you are doing any of these things to your partner or whanau, it may be a good idea to speak to a professional.
Physically hurt others
Control or monitor loved ones
Threaten to harm or kill others
Threaten children, someone else, or pets
Go through partners phone, email, social media
Put your hands around partners neck, or otherwise impede their breathing
Intentionally scared partner with words and/or actions
Call your partner or children names, degrade or humiliate them
Break or destroy your partners belongings, or your home
Stalk partner or intimidate them
Withholds affection or control finances as a way to manage or control others
Stop, or makes it hard for your partner, to see their friends and family.
If any of these behaviours sound like you, click the button below to reach out to a counsellor.