Live your life free from family violence.
Kapiti Living Without Violence is an organisation dedicated to the prevention of violence in our communities. We provide programmes, resources and support to help people live free from violence and abuse. Our practice is non-judgemental, trauma-informed and strengths based – helping you to find a new path. We have stood against family violence since 1989 when our organisation was formed.
What is family violence?
Family violence is when a person harms or controls a family member, or someone they’re in a close relationship with. The harm or control can be physical, emotional, psychological, financial, sexual, or a combination of these.
Do I need help?
Sometimes it can be hard to know if you’re experiencing family violence. We’ve put together a checklist to help you identify and understand the signs of abuse.
What changes can I make?
With our support, you can make changes in your life to stop family violence. Our Kaupapa in Practice shows how we guide you over the pūreirei (stepping stones) towards these changes.
Our programs for change
We provide individual or group programs to help you make the positive changes needed to stop family violence.
Behaviour change program
Our program helps you to take an honest look at your relationships and how your use of violence or abuse may be impacting your whānau. It is open to anyone who needs help. You may be referred to us through the courts, or you may feel that you need help to manage your anger and the way you respond to stress.
Safety and Protection program
You have a right to feel safe in your family, relationship and home. Our Safety program supports you if you are experiencing family or intimate partner violence. We provide education, counselling and practical resources to help you deal with the effects of violence on you and your tamariki. We guide you through your options, support your choices and help to manage your safety,
"Very grateful for the new tools, skills and support I've had - I can already see and feel the positive impacts."
Safety and Protection Program client
"The real strengths of the program were education, accountability, a counsellor with lived experience, helping empower me to escape the cycle, and be free from family violence."
Safety and Protection Program client
"I would like to thank you very much for all the good things that you have passed on to me to help me become a better man and father."
Behaviour Change Program client
"Has given me the thought process and tools to recognise and control feelings and emotions."